Feminist Feelings

8.30 AM on a sunday morning...I get up with this rage..Somehow I was unable to bring myself to accept the barbaric acts of the so called "moral police" in India..What do these people call morality and why is always women targeted?? Do these "fanatics" of Hinduism really know the true principles and beliefs of the religion?? If women socializing and couples going out during valentine's day are considered against the Hindu religion, where does thrashing women in public, forcefully getting couples married just because they were seen together in public fit in??? Its always the women at fault or the youth..What do these monkeys have to say about innumerable shameless middle and old aged men who rub women at all awekward places while travelling in the bus?? What about those bastards who consider raping and sexually and emotionally assaulting women as a part-time job?? Those hooligans in the form of husbands beating up their wife after fully drunk?? Are all these very much Hindu??I also dont understand why morals and principles are always thought in a sexual perspective. Cheating people, corruptions, greed..there is a whole list of other issues violating the code of conduct that the monkeys of the sena want to comfortably overlook..Afterall they are doing it all themselves!!

I guess this male chauvenistic attitude is imbibed and sunk into the society..Even well educated men with supposedly broad outlook of life ultimately want a wife who cooks cleans and takes care of him..I have once heard from someone very close to me say "Why dont u consider being a house wife?? Its a demanding task"..Agreed..Being a home maker IS a demanding task..I ve seen my mom..I ve seen his mom..They are one of the best managers..But then what I have noticed that they arent financially independant..their work is never shared...They dont get holidays..I just have one question "How do u expect me to trust any man?" whats the asssurance that he might not just leave u in the middle and go behind something better??I would have no money no life...Just an experience of cleaning cooking and washing..Ok..Lets look at it from the other side..The woman who works and manages a home..How many men are really ready to take exactly 50% of the household work..If I cook one day, he needs to cook the other day..If I sweep and mop the house one day, he got to do it the next day..Well I bet 99% of the men would never agree to this..They expect superwomen..Someone who can manage and balance everything..And they will keep exploiting them in all possible ways.I can hear many men saying "I will I will" Come on guys.you know thats never gonna happen!!!!Its not only with Indian men, its with men all over the world..Well people I dont want to blame all men..Its the way the society has evolved to be..No matter how much we talk about freedom for women, ready to face the fact...we are one category of unprotected group that will be exploited forever...

Phew....I am usually never so feminist..But I guess the monkeys of Ram Sena has really made be furious...Its the second time I am personally facing it after the imposition of dress code in Anna University..Again targeted only against girls..Though there were codes for guys as well, it wasnt as rigorously talked about as it was imposed on girls..Gosh who the hell are you to talk about what a girl should wear??And if you expect girls to be spoiling the tradition why dont guys also wear dothi???